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Foreign women threaten social fabric of Luxor
Posted: 02-03-2007 , 08:13 GMT

LuxorAuthorities of the Egyptian city of Luxor recently embarked on a new campaign in an attempt to stop a phenomenon that has been plaguing the city in recent years. The new effort in the well-known tourist city started after it was discovered that some 40 percent of Luxor youth were married to Western women - most of whom were in their late 40s and 50s.

 

According to Al Sharq Al Awsat newspaper, leaders fear that the social make-up of Luxor will be drastically changed to the detriment of the city if the new trend doesn’t cease in the near future.

 

The new campaign is set to include both Christian and Muslim religious leaders who will stress to young males the importance of marrying local Egyptian women rather then choosing foreign women.

 

Dr. Samir Faraj, who heads the Luxor municipality, explains that the main reason behind such marriages is financial motivation, rather than an expression of love. In his words, young Egyptians believe that marrying a Western woman will cure their financial troubles.

 

Faraj maintains that the key to changing the situation lies in the creation of new and viable employment positions for such youth, who will then be free to marry the women of their choice, and not be constrained to choose a wife on the basis of her financial background.

 

He also adds that the families of such men would also prefer that their children marry locally. However, in light of the difficult economic conditions throughout Egypt and Luxor, they understand that marrying a Western woman - even if she may be as much as twice as old as their sons - is an opportunity worth taking.

 

Luxor is one of several Upper Egyptian governorates, including Fayoum, Beni Suef, El Menia, Assiut, Sohag, Quena, and Aswan, whose populations struggle with extreme poverty.  Luxor, however, attracts countless tourists annually from across the world to its breathtaking ancient ruins. In fact, Egypt and its magnificent archeological treasures drew an estimated nine million tourists in 2006, many of whom passed through Luxor. However, with an economy based solely on a sometimes shaky tourism industry easily influenced by regional political developments, much of the town’s residents fail to reap the benefits of a potentially lucrative source of income.

 

Such economics have meshed with tradition to maintain what until recently was a strict code of conduct in terms of marriage and intermarriage. This is especially true in Upper Egypt, as opposed to urban centers, such as Cairo, where there is far more exposure to non-Egyptian cultural norms.

 

Young people in Upper Egypt rarely date or spend time alone with one another prior to marriage. Instead, couples are generally paired up by matchmakers at early ages, with some girls being engaged by the age of nine or ten (though marriage under the age of 15 is prohibited). Such matchmakers, along with parents, often choose a wife for a young male from his own family, where the woman’s reputation, social and financial standing is clear.  Cousins often marry, on the condition that the cousin is from the father's side, guaranteeing the continuation of the family name.

 

The new phenomenon of intermarriage with unknown, older foreign women is therefore extremely threatening to the traditional fabric of the community; the preservation of lineage as well as local tradition for both men and women are maintained through local marriage custom. Additionally, as a growing number of young men marry foreign women, local women in Luxor are left with little or no options for entering a marriage and establishing a family.

 

Time will tell whether the new trend will prove to be a temporary phenomenon, or a drastic new step away from tradition which may change Luxor society forever, for better or for worse. 

© 2007 Al Bawaba (www.albawaba.com)

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» Foreign women marrying in Luxo
  Jane, Luxor, (2007-02-28 , 17:31) - Reply
  2 points on your very interesting article. Dr Samir Farag is the one with the power to provide employment. I truly wish he would because who can blame these young men when there are literally no other ways to make a living. Secondly your article does not mention polygamy; many of these Western women are not the only wife but are unaware of it. There may be other Western wives and often an Egyptian wife and children. Simplifying the marriage laws so people could marry in Luxor and removing Orfi would make it much more transparent whether your potential bridegroom was already married

» foreign woman marry muslim men
  rose, bahamas, (2008-08-18 , 17:15) - Reply
  i need to know more about this

» i can help u
  haitham, egyptian, (2009-02-20 , 18:11) - Reply
  really u have to know about this and i can help u

» foreign women and young man in
  samy ghoneim, u.s.a, (2007-03-03 , 02:00) - Reply
  time will tell , this is the best thing for all young man not just luxor but for all egyptian young man,tradition does not pay antyhing or help ,you can establishe a family with foreign women, and you may learn something new,and help yourselef and others.

» 40% Nonsense!
  rancher, (2007-03-15 , 02:35) - Reply
  This reporter is high. There is no way that 40% of Luxor marriages are to foreign women. I doubt it is even 1%. This is just pure racism.

» foreign women and luxor
  Candida Fernandez, California, (2007-03-15 , 04:07) - Reply
  The men who will be successful with foreign women are those that are intelligent and open minded. The men who want something better for themselves and want to challenge themselves will appreciate educated and liberated women. The egyptians who fail at marriage with foreign women are those that are uneducated or do not want to break from the traditions of village life. It could be a chance of educating themselves and for a better life. Living with a foreign women is not easy and is challenging. It is not only for a meal ticlet but for a better chance in life that these egyptians seek foreign women.

» fossils or not fossils? 1
  nima, usa, (2007-03-20 , 05:28) - Reply
  I think the overriding issue for these women is "fresh meat" and "lot of testastrom" and they are not going to find it in western countries. In some cultures such as those of Dominican or Puertorican it is normal for older women to hang out or marry a younger man. "Tengo una novia y una vieja" is a common saying among the men in these cultures. Means I have a girl freind (novia)and an oldie (vieja) but in anglo culture these older single or divorced women are considered fossils unless they are rich or famous they become useful for social engineering for some anglo younger men. It is sad but true.

» fossils or not fossils? 2
  nima, usa, (2007-03-20 , 05:29) - Reply
  But even in those latin cultures that accept the concept of "Vieja" the trend is older men marrying or dating a younger women. I am sure you know the song "cuarenta y veinte" (40 and 20 ) by Jose Jose. There is a reason for that song still being a popular song. For the Egyptian youth it is more likely a social engineering and a step up. They will move to their wives' home country , become citizen and be allowed to work or will use their wives' money to start a business or what have you and meanwhile they will be having something on the side , a side dish if you will. In some cases it is an unverbalized "open marriage". It saisfies both parties and what is wrong with that? :)

» Everyone makes a choice
  Lulu, Australia, (2007-12-20 , 23:54) - Reply
  These comments are racist - the problem IS the young Egyptian men work on the Nile boats and in tourism. They meet western women every day and they see what the world has to offer - nothing more - nothing less. It is the older women who go to Egypt because they can afford it and this is why they meet these men. Granted, there are some Egyptians who see westerners as a meal ticket but what about the genuine relationships? You are all having opinions on heresay and not of experience.

» sad but true
  Lily, (2007-03-16 , 01:41) - Reply
  I would say the estimate is high, but not totally off the mark. Marrying a foreign woman is big business there. And it is a business ladies- do not be fooled by some 20 year old you've known for a day who tells you that 55 is sexy! But the article's implication that the traditional way of doing things is better is ridiculous. The men of Luxor are doing this because a family arranged marriage to a first cousin is not satisfactory anymore. Modern people raised on an expectation of love find this situation depressing and even hopeless. Foreign women offer a way out- even if motivated by money.

» looking for fresh meat..
  nima, usa, (2007-03-20 , 05:02) - Reply
  Lets not kid ourselves. In many of these western countries these older single or divorced women are considered fossils, they don't have a chance of dating a youger men or a young man. These countries are very youth oriented and unless an older woman is rich or famous she does not stand a chance of dating younger men. It is not the same for men. Men in these western countries can easily date younger women. These older women are looking for fresh meat and maybe even some love but freshness and mucho testastrom is the overriding issue. Lets not kid ourselves. And for those Egyptian men doing this ? There is a term for that: social engineering

» More of the same!
  Lulu, Australia, (2007-12-20 , 23:59) - Reply
  I agree - people marry who they want to marry and the western ethos is choice - this is what the young Egyptian men want too. Gone are the days of arranged marriages and social status with families. These young men are the new breed and who can blame them for wanting a better life if they have found someone who is willing to help them achieve that. This happens with relationships all over the world.

» Foreign women threaten social
  Anon, usa, (2007-03-20 , 06:00) - Reply
  0 points on this one Well I for one see this as a racist remark and many OLDER western women will be at his door step to let him know their opinion of how cheap he just made women like myself feel. Not all OLDER western women are out to land some young guy over in Egypt, but to see the sights and wonders of Egypt. For him to say an inane remark like this, is a total slap in the face.

» stop this madness
  Igor D., New York, (2007-03-20 , 19:30) - Reply
  stop playa hating! Let people marry whoever they want to marry! its no ones business but their own ;)

» Let’s change the title!
  John, Canada, (2007-03-21 , 02:06) - Reply
  How about "Foreign muslims threaten social fabric of Canada". Can we do something to remove this threat ?

» Sad but honest
  Maria, Netherlands, (2008-04-21 , 09:33) - Reply
  Some young men from Luxor have no future and it doesn't matter if they are christians or muslims. Those young men don't have or see the possibilities to deal with the life they live. Personal i think these young men are selling themselves for money or a ticket to freedom. They are used to lie and it seems that it becomes their second nature. I agree that the problem with those young men is a huge problem, because many of them married old women and finally they give Luxor and Egypt a very bad advertisement in the world. You can read so many experiences of women on forums. Its sad but honest.

» as above
  Margaret Zoheir, Cairo, (2008-07-03 , 20:33) - Reply
  Sadly, I agree with some of the comments the journalist has raised with regard to Luxor. I lived in Luxor some 15 years ago and was then shocked to meet a foreign woman in her 70s who was married to a local young man in his 20's. This lady believed that the man 'loved her' and I wrote to a friend in the UK and told her it was a case of 'poverty' meeting 'stupidity' - since then I have realised the problem is widespread, not just in Luxor, but in Hurghada, Sharm el Sheikh, El Gouna and now even in Cairo. I think the authorities must look at the Orfi marriage system which would not be acceptable to a young Egyptian woman.
   
   
   
 

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