World powers urged Syrian President Bashar al-Assad to commit to peace but warned Thursday that if he fails to negotiate a political transition they would boost their backing of the opposition.
The stark warning came from a meeting of the Friends of Syria group, which held talks on Wednesday in Amman  to try to agree the contours of a peace conference to end the war.
The conflict, now in its third year, has claimed some 94,000 lives.
The United States and Russia have backed opposite sides in the conflict but hope to bring the warring sides together at the conference next month , although a date and venue remain unclear.
“We would call on President Assad to exhibit the same commitment to trying to find peace in his own country. That is critical,” U.S. Secretary of State Kerry told a joint press conference with Jordanian Foreign Minister Nasser Judeh ahead of the talks.
After meeting late into the night, the 11 ministers from the Friends of Syria group laid out a grim choice for Assad: he and his associates with “blood on their hands” had no role to play in the future of Syria, they said .
If the regime refused to negotiate a transitional government, then they would boost their support for the opposition, they said.
“The ministers also emphasized that until such time as the Geneva meeting produces a transitional government, they will further increase their support for the opposition and take all other steps as necessary,” a final statement said.
A U.S. official would not confirm whether that meant Washington would finally overcome its reluctance to send arms to the rebels.
“All of the countries agreed that the support to the opposition is a tactic that works toward achieving a strategy of securing a negotiated political settlement,” the official said, asking not to be named.
“We’ve long said that it’s important to change [Assad’s] calculation, and in order to change his calculation the balance of power on the ground must change.”
“So, the communique states we will increase our support to the opposition and the goal of that is to change the balance on the ground.”
The ministers met for over two hours, first behind closed doors at an Amman hotel, then holding three hours of talks with the interim president of the Syrian National Coalition, George Sabra, and two other rebel leaders.
The communique denounced ethnic cleansing, “identified as the corner stone of a political solution the formation of a transitional governing body through mutual consent.”
And it condemned the intervention of foreign fighters, including the Hezbollah militants and Iranians backing the Damascus regime.
In another sign of the growing impatience with Assad, French President Francois Hollande and British Prime Minister David Cameron said they would seek European support for their proposal to arm the Syrian opposition.
“We are prepared to lift the arms embargo further so that the opposition can present themselves as the legitimate voice of the Syrian people,” Cameron told reporters during a brief stopover in Paris.
The foreign ministers of Britain, Egypt, France, Germany, Italy, Jordan, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Turkey, the United Arab Emirates and the United States attended the meeting in the Jordanian capital.
Qatari Foreign Minister Hassem bin Jassem al-Thani unleashed a furious tirade against Assad, accusing him of “continuing to kill his people with outside help and using banned weapons.”
“Syria is totally destroyed, and all so that the regime can stay in place. We are with you and we will stay with you,” he told Sabra.
All eyes are likely now to turn to Istanbul where the opposition is to start meetings on electing a new president, expand its “parliament” and begin the process of choosing an interim government.
Neither the opposition nor Damascus has yet publicly said who they would send to attend the peace conference, likely to be held in June.
But U.S. officials said Washington had been told by third parties that the Syrian regime delegation would be led by Prime Minister Wael al-Halqi.
U.S. ambassador to Syria Robert Ford was Thursday on his way back to Istanbul for meetings with the opposition.
Rebels fighting for control of Qusayr, now the main battlefront, called for reinforcements to repel forces loyal to Assad and what they described as an “invasion” by Hezbollah and Iran .
"Everyone who has weapons or ammunition should send them to Qusayr and Homs to strengthen its resistance. Every bullet sent to Qusayr and Homs will block the invasion that is trying to drag Syria back to the era of fear,” George Sabra, acting head of the opposition National Coalition, said in a statement.
Opposition fighters said air strikes and shelling rocked the small town near the Syrian-Lebanese border.
Assad’s forces are intent on seizing Qusayr to cement their hold on a belt of territory that connects the capital, Damascus, to Assad’s stronghold on the Mediterranean coast, heartland of his minority Alawite sect, an offshoot of Shiite Islam.
Seizing Qusayr would also allow Assad to sever links between rebel-held areas in the north and south of Syria and cut a key supply route for the rebels from Sunni areas of Lebanon.
France is to call for the military arm of Hezbollah to be added to an EU terror blacklist due to its backing of the Syrian regime, French Foreign Minister Laurent Fabius said Wednesday.
“Because of the decisions that have been taken by Hezbollah and the fact that they are fighting very harshly the Syrian population, we have decided to ask that the military branch of the Hezbollah would be considered as a terrorist organization,” Fabius told reporters in English.
The United States has long designated the Lebanon-based militant group, which is backed by Iran, as a terrorist organization and has been pressing its European allies to follow suit.
“Many of us European countries are on this line and my guess is that it will be a decision that will be taken by Europe,” Fabius said, leaving a meeting of the Friends of Syria in Amman.