‘That’s our seat!’ Saudis debate the etiquette of giving up a place on the bus

Published January 18th, 2017 - 12:49 GMT
Every country has its own unspoken seat-related rules (Flickr)
Every country has its own unspoken seat-related rules (Flickr)

The question of who should have priority access to chairs on public transport is a thorny issue all over the world.

In London, the transport authority has even launched badges labeled “please give me a seat” for people with special requirements to use on underground trains.

Today, it was the turn of the Saudis to debate when and for whom people should give up their seats.

Media personality and women’s rights campaigner Muna AbuSulayman kicked off debate with the following post:

In the airport bus going to Riyadh the men were all sitting and the women and children were all standing. The worker himself didn’t see and just kept staring at his phone.

Soon, the hashtag “that’s our seat” was launched as Saudis discussed the delicate issue. Some suggested that the answer is straightforward: men should give up their seats for women.

You’re not going to ask a girl on the bus are you feminist or do you demand equality in order to give up your place or not. Do the thing that makes you respect yourself as a man.

They are sitting next to a sign saying that the seats are for women and the elderly.

Others claimed that women should only be given the priority when they were pregnant or elderly, or had some other special requirement:

This has nothing to do with good taste or manliness or chivalry. If you are one of the people in the picture... it is your right. If not...then calm down, you "center of the Universe."

She has understand being a woman wrong. If you are a woman that doesn’t necessarily mean you have special requirements. If he was there before you, then the seat is his right.

I am with you on the point with regard to children and pregnant women and old people. However, with regard to the occasions when I come and sit down, and then a girl comes I have to give her my seat just because she’s female, then no. 

Others simply mocked the suggestion that women should be given priority seating:

As secretary general of the philanthropic arm of HRH Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal's Kingdom Holding Company, AbuSulayman has been involved in supporting a number of social initiatives, including projects empowering Saudi women. Alwaleed himself is well known for his support for women's rights, having called last year for a change to the law forbidding Saudi women from driving.

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