By Alexandra Abumuhor Jennifer Lopez 's first husband Ojani Noa says Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's fairytale might not last long. Ojani Noa was a waiter who won Jennifer's heart while working at a Miami restaurant, the couple tied the knot in 1997 and divorced a year later. And now, 24 years later, Ojani revealed that he is happy for his ex-wife, but he claimed that this marriage is most ...